Life after the big chop

My hair will be 7 months old on the 9th of August. Yeay me! Believe me it's been a bit of a rollercoaster ride because at times I'd regret the big chop and wish I had transitioned. I really had mixed emotions because my hair was so short which had its up side (little maintenance required) but my hands were tied when it came to styling. It was too short to braid or do a sew-in so I had to be patient till I could actually do a proper protective style.

After the big chop I didn't have a proper regimen. I would simply wet my hair then apply Amla oil (not the pure oil as the brand I had contained lots of mineral oil and I only realized that later on). To soften my hair I'd apply Dax Hair Grower, it was good for my hair though it made it a bit too oily. I also used a sulfate shampoo lol. Don't judge me, I was still trying to get the hang of it and I am still learning. I am glad the natural hair community has grown over the years. I have learnt from so many naturalistas across the globe, all thanks to social media. I am not alone in this journey, I've grown in knowledge and I am still yearning to learn more.

My regimen became more fixed in May when I got my first protective style. That's when I decided to become a bit consistent. I am a minimalist. I try do the most I can using a few resources. I do get tempted to horde products but I am trying by all means to avoid being a product junkie and to just find a few products that work for my hair. Here are the few products I have been using since May:

Palmer's coconut oil formula conditioning shampoo:

You can get this shampoo at any Clicks store in South Africa. This product smells so good I could eat it! It's free of sulphates and parabens. It's also gentle on my hair, it doesn't strip it dry and it's also conditioning. It contains keratin to strengthen and repair your strands, monoi oil to hydrate your hair and coconut oil to moisturize and add shine. It's good for dry, colour treated or damaged hair.

Originals Africa's Best Hair Mayonnaise:

I also got this product from Clicks in South Africa. I use this product for deep conditioning my hair and as a leave-in conditioner (sometimes). It contains herbal extracts, olive oil, egg protein and vitamins to moisturize, condition and strengthen hair. It's also good for weak and damaged hair. I bleached my hair and this product has worked quite well in preventing breakage and dryness from the bleach.

Guava water:

If you're a DIY kind of person you probably have such weird conconctions of your own to moisturize your hair. I use guava water as a daily spritz to moisturize my hair in a protective style or as my L when doing the LOC method on free hair. Previously I would interchange it with plain water mixed with olive oil and glycerine or rose water mixed with glycerine. Guava water promotes hair growth, strengthens hair and reduces shedding. You can read more about its benefits and how to make your own here.

Caivil Fusion Oil Hair Gro Essence:

I got this from Clicks SA but it's also available at Dischem. This oil contains a long list of all the good oils. Olive oil, castor oil, coconut oil, rosemary essential oil, peppermint essential oil, argan oil, avocado oil etc. Trust me it's a long list of hair magic. It promotes hair growth, strengthens and thickens hair, nourishes your scalp, prevents breakage and I also use it as a sealing oil for my LOC method. It has a strong peppermint scent which might not appeal to everyone but I love it all the same.

Dark & Lovely Au Naturale Afro Moisturizing Butter:

Yes, I also got this from Clicks SA! I am a loyal customer. The afro moisturizing butter deeply nourishes and conditions hair leaving it soft and manageable. It also prevents styling damage and it doesn't contain any parabens, petrolatum, drying alcohol and mineral oil. Plus, it smells divine.

Aunt Jackie's Curl la la Curl Defining Custard:

I got it from Clicks as well. I bought this for my wash n go days which are yet to come this summer lol. My ends have been tucked away most of this winter but I can't wait to try out this product on my hair. Hopefully it will also help me do a cute Bantu knot-out or a twist out we will see. It's been working well on my son's hair though so I am impressed for now. Fingers crossed it will do some good on mine:)

There you have it! Those are the products that I have on my shelf. You can also try them out. Are you already using any of them? Do give some feedback in the comments. I am enjoying my hair journey hope you're enjoying yours too. Love your hair, take care of it. Remember length comes from healthy hair so make sure you maintain healthy hair for you to be able to retain length. You don't have to use the latest product or the most expensive. Find the few that work for you and stick to them. Happy hair growing!!!!



IMG_20170606_150945_511I recently started my natural hair journey. Did my big chop on the 9th of January and when my hair was still very short I’d switch between products just to maintain and keep the shine. Hell I am guilty of using a shampoo full of sulfates because I honestly felt like my hair was too short to damage anyway๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ (Don’t judge me).

So fast forward till now. I had to get a weave for my graduation and well I literally had dry untreated and neglected hair under the weave. I felt like I needed something to treat it soon after I took out the weave as I feared damage. My hair had been a victim of hair dye and bleache prior the weave so I knew it needed some TLC.


So I took out the sew-in weave last night and I shampooed my hair with love ๐Ÿ’–. We will talk about the sulfate free shampoo I use in another post. I towel dried my hair(Oops) well I couldn’t find an old tshirt near by and my hair is still ย a bit too short to get tangled up with towel fibre but anyway!!!!!! I am still getting the hang of this natural hair thing so forgive me if I break some of the rules here and there.


Anyhow, I deep conditioned my hair using the product thats the topic of this post, Africa’s Best Hair Mayonnaise. I applied it to towel dried hair, covered my hair with a plastic bag, 2stockings and a woolen hat to retain heat for about an hour which is more than the 10minutes they tell us to keep it in for but yeah again I really suck at following rules.

I rinsed it off using warm water and to be honest I loved the feel of my hair. It felt soft, well moisturised and I could easily comb through. I couldnt believe that a product I got at such a reasonable price at clicks could leave my hair so manageable. I have 4C very kink and course hair so anyone who has the same hair type knows and understands the horror I go through with that hair.


When I applied my oil and cream to seal in the moisture my hair was behaving so much that my mom didnt struggle when she was doing the african threading to keep it stretched till i get my PS for winter this weekend.


I have read some of the reviews of this product by others and most condemn it because of the mineral oil and the strong herbal scent but for those that dont mind either just like me please try it. Your hair might love it.I havent tried it as a leave-in because of the scent but you can try that too and maybe give me feedback on how its been working out for you.